Trading is a way to quickly experience life; it is a super accelerator of life. In trading, your personality, habits, strengths, weaknesses, your understanding of the world and things, your way of doing things and your abilities will be quickly exposed and amplified.

Successful traders must have the ability to understand the fundamental laws of how things operate and be able to turn this understanding into effective actions.
People like this, not only in trading but even in other pursuits, are very likely to succeed. Therefore, all success in the world shares similarities. If you haven't done well in trading yet, it must mean your life and work are a mess.
It's said that trading is anti-human, but what about other successes in the world? Aren't they also against human nature? For example, are you disciplined enough, do you understand delayed gratification, do you have strong execution skills, and do you have powerful self-review abilities?
Apart from trading requiring less interaction with people, in terms of personal traits, they are all the same. From this perspective, trading isn't particularly special.
Understanding this principle, you will realize where a trader's efforts should be directed.
A successful trader isn't about obsessively studying technicals and fundamentals, nor about constantly watching the market to become a trading machine, nor about cultivating a detached mindset or leaving society behind. Instead, it's about achieving a sense of harmony and composure.
This harmony doesn't mean enjoying trading itself, nor does this composure necessarily mean always making money. It’s about balancing your life and trading itself. Not fully immersing yourself in trading, not treating trading as a life-saving straw, but integrating trading into your life so that trading and your daily life become one.
For example, you go to the gym daily to stay healthy and maintain a good figure, exercising your self-discipline and willpower; or you have a job to develop, which trains your long-term thinking and execution; or you focus on managing your family, making it warmer and exercising your patience; or you travel often to lift your spirits and cultivate a good mindset.
Therefore, if you haven't yet found the way to trade, try to set it aside for now. First, reorganize your life, find points of harmony in your daily work and life, and gain full control over your rhythm of work and life.
When you dedicate a significant part of your energy to managing your life and become more harmonious in life rather than solely focusing on trading, you will find it easier to succeed.