There are two recent trading opportunities. The trend is quite clear, but I kept hesitating whether to take action. In the end, I decided to open a SOL position, and I didn't expect such a fierce rally. My original take-profit was set quite conservatively, and now I feel a bit regretful.
This experience made me realize a few issues:
**First, how costly is it not to monitor the market in real-time.** If I hadn't placed an order and instead watched the market closely, I might have already secured more profit. In the future, as long as I have time to monitor, I should operate in real-time and not rely entirely on stop-loss and take-profit orders.
**Second, the psychological shadow from a previous trade can poison the next one.** Last night, I missed a BTC move due to hesitation, which made me want to open a position on Bitcoin. This unwillingness directly affected my decision on SOL. Although SOL eventually made a profit, the regret was very uncomfortable. I even considered reversing and shorting—this is definitely a dangerous signal.
**Third, don’t let emotions from one trade ruin the entire trading rhythm.** People tend to overreact to recent experiences, magnifying short-term feelings as if everything is a matter of life and death. I often forget the long-term trading principles and get entangled in the regrets of the last two trades. Actually, my reason for opening SOL was solid—market conditions were strong, and SOL follows BTC; the percentage change might differ, but the direction is the same.
**The most important mindset adjustment:** Don’t blame yourself for missed profits. When I opened the position, I was most concerned about this. We don’t have a god’s-eye view. If it hadn’t been a sharp rally but a crash, I would now be grateful that I only opened one position, which reduces pressure significantly. So, there’s really no need to deeply regret "things that shouldn’t have been gained."
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ShortingEnthusiast
· 01-06 23:51
Hi, it's that old problem again. I've taken the blame for take-profit orders countless times.
This is just my daily routine. When I miss out on BTC, I start self-punishing, then rush into SOL, and end up catching some gains, but I still feel uneasy inside.
Watching the market closely is right, but who the hell has that much time? Every time I just place an order and then lie down, missing out on the skyrocketing trend.
Stop self-blaming. Really, this mindset can ruin a person.
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gas_guzzler
· 01-06 23:46
It's that old problem again—being torn between watching the market and not watching it.
Honestly, take-profit orders are meant to curb greed, but now the situation has reversed.
Missing out on that BTC order is really easy to get caught up in, I've been there too, and then I end up making all sorts of reckless moves.
It's really a mindset issue; what you earn is what you earn, there's no need to argue with yourself.
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GasFeeCryer
· 01-06 23:43
Setting too conservative take-profit orders is basically a sign of lacking confidence
Making money and still regretting it, this mindset needs to be adjusted
Really, don’t torment yourself over missed profits, it’s exhausting
The shadow of that BTC order indeed easily influences the next one, that’s a trap
Watching the market and placing orders each have their own hardships, the key is to understand what type of trader you are
I totally agree with the idea that emotional pollution affects trading rhythm, I’ve been trapped by this recently
Actually, making a profit is enough, why insist on capturing the last bit of a rally
When a take-profit order is broken through, it indicates the trend is stronger than expected, which is actually a good thing
Psychological shadowing is indeed the hardest part of trading, even more difficult than technical analysis
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0xLostKey
· 01-06 23:23
Take profit orders do more harm than good; you still need to watch the market, otherwise you're just giving away money for free.
I almost got trapped by BTC, but in the end SOL saved me. Still, that kind of regret is really hard to bear, and I even considered shorting back. Looking back now, I break out in cold sweat.
Honestly, I’ve been too easily brainwashed by recent losses, and I can’t remember long-term strategies at all.
Pulling out is pulling out; don’t regret missed profits. After all, I’m not a god—who knows what will happen in the next second.
People tend to overreact to recent experiences, and this is a problem that needs fixing.
Watching the market can help you catch more gains, but it’s also more exhausting. This trade-off is indeed difficult.
Emotions really are contagious. A single loss can influence subsequent decisions, so I need to be careful not to get obsessed.
The moment I considered shorting again, I knew it was dangerous. Luckily, I didn’t actually do it.
There are two recent trading opportunities. The trend is quite clear, but I kept hesitating whether to take action. In the end, I decided to open a SOL position, and I didn't expect such a fierce rally. My original take-profit was set quite conservatively, and now I feel a bit regretful.
This experience made me realize a few issues:
**First, how costly is it not to monitor the market in real-time.** If I hadn't placed an order and instead watched the market closely, I might have already secured more profit. In the future, as long as I have time to monitor, I should operate in real-time and not rely entirely on stop-loss and take-profit orders.
**Second, the psychological shadow from a previous trade can poison the next one.** Last night, I missed a BTC move due to hesitation, which made me want to open a position on Bitcoin. This unwillingness directly affected my decision on SOL. Although SOL eventually made a profit, the regret was very uncomfortable. I even considered reversing and shorting—this is definitely a dangerous signal.
**Third, don’t let emotions from one trade ruin the entire trading rhythm.** People tend to overreact to recent experiences, magnifying short-term feelings as if everything is a matter of life and death. I often forget the long-term trading principles and get entangled in the regrets of the last two trades. Actually, my reason for opening SOL was solid—market conditions were strong, and SOL follows BTC; the percentage change might differ, but the direction is the same.
**The most important mindset adjustment:** Don’t blame yourself for missed profits. When I opened the position, I was most concerned about this. We don’t have a god’s-eye view. If it hadn’t been a sharp rally but a crash, I would now be grateful that I only opened one position, which reduces pressure significantly. So, there’s really no need to deeply regret "things that shouldn’t have been gained."