Most people never realize in their lifetime:

That their understanding of money shouldn't stay at "buying things"—
Its true value is buying freedom.

This freedom has nothing to do with houses, cars, or luxury goods.
It's about being able to refuse social engagements directly when you don't want to,
Travel without asking for permission,
And gracefully withdraw from socializing when you want to escape the noise.

When entering society, we always think we need to fit in; only later do we understand,
That much of the lively social scene is just mutual consumption.
Relationships are just survival skills,
Never the essence of life itself.

This is also why wealthy people prefer quiet:
High-speed train business class, first-class airplane cabins, upscale communities,
Essentially, spending money to block out ineffective distractions.
You'll find that high-end venues are usually quiet and private,
Just like upscale neighborhoods are often as peaceful as a forest,
While noise is always hidden in the noisy corners.

True freedom is a kind of silent luxury.
The best state for a person isn't socializing to the max,
But being able to detach from the noise:
Waking up early alone, reading, exercising, traveling,
Silencing your phone without panic.
When disturbed, having the confidence to say "No."
This kind of calm isn't loneliness; it's the ultimate freedom.

Don't envy those with lively social circles and extensive connections.
Smart people are all relying on their ability to earn money,
To gain the qualification for solitude.
Those who live cleanly and relaxed,
Have long stopped caring about external judgments.