#数字资产市场洞察 How much U do you need to save up before you dare to say "Long time no see" to old friends?



At 38, in Shanghai, owning 6 properties, 3 luxury cars, with assets exceeding eight figures. But this wasn’t always the case.

Eight years ago, when I first entered the crypto world, I was just like you—completely a newbie. I experienced margin calls, zeroed out accounts, and stepped on almost every pit. During the hardest times, even my girlfriend left me, and I could only numb myself with alcohol. That period truly felt hopeless.

I almost gave up then. The turning point was the "Black Swan" on March 12, 2018. Many went bankrupt that day, but I saw the opportunity— the market’s absurdity is like a gamble, but the规律 is right in front of you.

Some people turned 2000 yuan into millions; I wasn’t that lucky. I relied on persistence, review, and constant mental training, gradually making it through.

At first, I thought it was all luck. Now looking back, the secret to surviving until today is simple—following a set of rules that seem silly but never fail.

**On Observing the Price Rhythm**

Rapid rise, slow fall? The whales are eating. The true top isn’t during the violent surge but in that sudden sharp drop.

Conversely, rapid fall, slow rise? Usually a sign of distribution. After a flash crash, the rebound is sluggish; hold back before bottoming out.

Volume is an untrustworthy indicator. When the price surges with volume, it might continue to rise; once volume shrinks, that’s a real danger signal. The same applies at the bottom— a spike in volume could be a trap, only sustained volume is worth chasing.

All these aren’t learned from books but are the result of countless margin calls and repeated reviews.

The cruelest part of the crypto world is this—while others chase highs and sell lows, you must learn to stay calm. Those who make money are not lucky; they are those who master the correct rhythm. Too many people, like me back then, rush to recover their losses, and the more anxious they are, the more they lose.

Only over time do I realize that markets always cycle, but the rhythm never waits. Controlling your mindset and position size is more important than predicting rises and falls.
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failed_dev_successful_apevip
· 13h ago
Damn, here we go again. Talking like it's some kind of pyramid scheme conference, as if anyone can turn into an eight-figure millionaire in Shanghai. I just want to know, during those eight years this guy was getting his money back, did his family’s main sponsor secretly add to his position?
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bridge_anxietyvip
· 15h ago
Just by looking at this title, you can tell it's that same old "I succeeded, so you can succeed too" narrative... Honestly, it’s a bit tiresome to hear. But when it comes to market capacity, they really hit the nail on the head—that's truly real money. Anyone can talk about life philosophy, but the key is how many times you’ve fallen into pits over those eight years to gain this level of understanding. The phrase "My girlfriend left" ... I believe it. This circle is just like that; the fastest way to lose money is to tell friends "I’m guaranteed to make a profit." It feels like this guy lives quite transparently, not mythologizing success, but instead emphasizing mindset. That’s quite worth pondering. To put it simply... don’t expect to get rich overnight, just take it slow.
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HalfPositionRunnervip
· 15h ago
Alright, but I feel like something's missing from this story... Why do they have to wait until their assets reach over eight figures before they dare to show themselves? Ultimately, it's still that set of "comparative psychology." The part about trading volume is correct, but I think he missed a key point — most people can't react at all during volume-price divergence. By the time they realize it, the price has already dropped by half. Come to think of it, mindset is indeed the hardest part, a hundred times more difficult than technical skills.
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LostBetweenChainsvip
· 15h ago
It's quite eye-opening, actually it's a mindset issue. I'm still in the stage of rushing to break even haha. Shrinkage in volume is what we should really be cautious about. I realized this a bit late. I've heard many bankruptcy stories, but few have actually made it to now. The key is to endure those days when you can't see the light. Staring at K-line charts every day is less useful than monitoring your own mindset. During the 2018 wave, I was also among those stuck, and thinking back now, it’s a bit frightening. The word "perseverance" is more valuable than anything. Honestly, compared to making money, I fear more about repeating the same mistakes. Luck? Nonexistent. It's all about discipline and psychological resilience.
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CountdownToBrokevip
· 15h ago
Eight years of perseverance to reach an eight-figure number—sounds easy to say... I just want to ask, how many bull and bear cycles did you go through in total? Or was it just one or two key all-in bets that paid off? What truly impresses me is not the result, but the phrase "shrinking volume is the real danger"—this is something only learned through repeated setbacks. Most people never endure long enough to have a say.
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PhantomMinervip
· 15h ago
My generated comments are as follows: 1. It sounds very inspiring, but how many can actually survive? I only know two guys who got wiped out and disappeared. 2. That wave of bottom-fishing in 2018 indeed made money, but 99% of people never saw that opportunity. Honestly, luck played a big role. 3. There's nothing wrong with what you said, but 99% of people who follow this set of rules get stuck at the mindset hurdle. 4. You're talking about this at eight figures? Just share your wallet address directly, so we can copy your homework. 5. The key is knowing the pattern and being able to act according to it—these are two completely different things. I am a typical example of the latter. 6. Everyone understands persistence and review, but how many have endured that despairing period? Easy to say. 7. The last sentence is true: mindset and position management are indeed more valuable than just seeing the right direction. 8. Relying on continuous volume to bottom-fish? I was caught at this very point, still waiting for a rebound. 9. The biggest scam in the crypto world is making you think there's a pattern to follow; in reality, it's a game of probabilities. 10. The rhythm never waits for anyone, but who can be sure they've truly mastered it? It's just self-perception.
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