When you enter a relationship, don't worry about positioning or the order of things—it doesn't matter. Especially when you're young and dating ordinary people, you don't need to be serious. I'm not saying play with emotions, but don't invest excessive time and energy, because even if ordinary people date for ten years, their social value remains low, and the efficiency of romance is very poor.

And don't die of heartbreak after a breakup, or elevate it to some cosmic karmic lesson about emotional tribulations and breaking attachment. You're both ordinary people—heaven can't even keep up with its own affairs, let alone orchestrate trials for you. You're not superior beings, so why would the universe go to such lengths for you?

It's simply a matter of your own foolishness and bad timing, nothing more. Don't blame heaven, because aside from you, no one cares, and heaven certainly doesn't.

Ordinary people's relationships are actually the easiest to navigate, but also the most calculated. High-level relationships, conversely, are extremely difficult to master because not everyone encounters them. Beyond human effort, it's mostly luck—you either meet them by chance or you don't.

These are two completely different systems and strategies, neither superior nor inferior. But the glamorous lives of beautiful people come with trade-offs that aren't as effortless as outsiders imagine. There's no one who doesn't shed tears, not even phoenixes.

Their lives aren't as easy as you think. Plenty of people are walking tightropes.

Everyone receives a different script in life. A conventional life script and an unconventional one operate in entirely different ecosystems. The latter may seem to rely on appearance and intelligence, but in the early stages, these have no value whatsoever, because you can't leverage them in that world at all—it's purely fate creating these odd anomalies.

The world they face, full of predators, is more complex and painful than what ordinary people experience.

Because self-made wealthy people face greater difficulty than those who are ordinarily poor or those born wealthy.

Heaven randomly lets you meet someone new—that's beyond your control. But how you treat them is up to you.

Love whoever you want to love. There's no such thing as predestined perfect matches. Whether you love, and whom you love—everyone ultimately reaches the same destination. You'll realize there's no need to be so emotionally invested or serious.

We're not important figures; we don't need to handle everything personally or exhaust ourselves.

Especially when you're both already burdened, don't be too serious. Everyone hits low points. Most people meeting someone new during a low point treat it as true love, a lifeline they didn't expect to find. But I still prefer speaking truth.

This is wrong, though it's ugly to say.

The correct perspective should actually be to slightly resent the other person. You should understand that you're here only because of bad timing; otherwise, you two would have no intersection. The other person wouldn't have met you. People are quick to kick you when you're down. So-called help is merely opportunism, or repayment through compromise.

You should rebuild yourself, climb out of that pit as soon as possible, and leave the other person behind. That's the respectful way to live—don't be blindly moved.

I still don't want you to spiral downward. Spiraling down is also a player mentality. Don't seriously commit. It's unnecessary.

Between people, it's not about mutual exchange where you ignore me and I ignore you. Rather, it's about ignoring yourself and not concerning yourself with the other person either.